Nov. 30 2016
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 30 — Q: I’ve been happily married to the same wonderful guy for 20 years. However, the longer we’re together the harder it is to remain faithful — surely for both...
Nov. 23 2016
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 23 — Q: A female friend of mine wanted to get married, but her boyfriend was resistant. He’d been married before, with disastrous results. He eventually married her —...
Nov. 16 2016
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 16 — Q: My boyfriend of a year is a big sweetheart, but whenever we go out to eat, he always orders first. It really bothers me, and I feel disrespected and embarrassed that people...
Nov. 9 2016
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 9 — Q: This will sound crazy, but…should I tell my girlfriend, the love of my life, that I was abducted by aliens? It happened a long time ago, and I have no proof —...
Nov. 2 2016
WEDNESDAY, Nov. 2 — Q: I’m a 42-year-old divorcee, just back in the dating world and using dating apps. I have two young children, who live with me. I mentioned them in my profile at first,...
Oct. 26 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 26 — Q: Six months after meeting this amazing woman — I’ll call her Ms. Perfect — I asked her to marry me. A year later, she broke off the engagement, saying, “I...
Oct. 19 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 19 — Q: Your response to “Torn” really missed the mark. She is the 35-year-old woman whose friends and family think her 43-year-old boyfriend is lazy and not good enough...
Oct. 12 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 12 — Q: My husband of a year is very tight with cash. It’s always save, save, save. I recently traded in my car, and I needed $1,000 more for the new one, but he never offered...
Oct. 5 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 5 — Q: A female friend of mine just broke up with her billionaire boyfriend. She told me she wasn’t happy. The guy is super-picky about whether you put things back in exactly...
Sept. 28 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 28 — Q: I’m a woman who’s on the feminist dating app Bumble, where women have to make the first move. Men can only write back to women who message them. I thought this...
Sept. 21 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 21 — Q: I’m a man who likes to girl-watch. I do this from behind very dark glasses, yet I still elicit scowls from women. Recently, I was at a help desk, and I availed myself...
Sept. 14 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sep. 14 — Q: I’m a 35-year-old woman, and my boyfriend of a year is 43. Sadly, my friends and family don’t like him. They think he’s “not good enough” for...
Sept. 7 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 7 — Q: I dragged my boyfriend into the makeup store Sephora, and he said, “Save your money! You don’t need any of this stuff. I like you better without makeup.”...
Aug. 31 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 31 — Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we really love each other. His parents adore me and are thrilled that he might not die alone. After his mom...
Aug. 24 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 24 — Q: I’m a woman in my late 20s. Guys don’t have car crashes looking at me, but I am pretty and have a nice boyfriend. I have three drop-dead gorgeous girlfriends who...
Aug. 17 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 17 — Q: When I was in my 20s, watching “Sex and the City,” I saw the Samantha Jones character as a sexual role model — thinking I could have love-‘em-and-leave-‘em...
Aug. 10 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 10 — Q: I dress like a tomboy: jeans, T-shirts, hoodies, and work boots. My boyfriend of a year wants me to wear skirts and dresses more often. Nothing trashy. Just not my usual tomb
July 27 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 27 — Q: Four months ago, I started hooking up with this hot guy I met on Tinder. He isn’t someone I’d normally go for; he’s a total mess and serious trouble. He...
July 20 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 20 — Q: A female friend overheard me on the phone with my boyfriend and became concerned. He and I tease each other relentlessly, calling each other mean silly names, but it’s...

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