Oct. 19 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 19 — Q: Your response to “Torn” really missed the mark. She is the 35-year-old woman whose friends and family think her 43-year-old boyfriend is lazy and not good enough...
Oct. 12 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 12 — Q: My husband of a year is very tight with cash. It’s always save, save, save. I recently traded in my car, and I needed $1,000 more for the new one, but he never offered...
Oct. 5 2016
WEDNESDAY, Oct. 5 — Q: A female friend of mine just broke up with her billionaire boyfriend. She told me she wasn’t happy. The guy is super-picky about whether you put things back in exactly...
Sept. 28 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 28 — Q: I’m a woman who’s on the feminist dating app Bumble, where women have to make the first move. Men can only write back to women who message them. I thought this...
Sept. 21 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 21 — Q: I’m a man who likes to girl-watch. I do this from behind very dark glasses, yet I still elicit scowls from women. Recently, I was at a help desk, and I availed myself...
Sept. 14 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sep. 14 — Q: I’m a 35-year-old woman, and my boyfriend of a year is 43. Sadly, my friends and family don’t like him. They think he’s “not good enough” for...
Sept. 7 2016
WEDNESDAY, Sept. 7 — Q: I dragged my boyfriend into the makeup store Sephora, and he said, “Save your money! You don’t need any of this stuff. I like you better without makeup.”...
Aug. 31 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 31 — Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we really love each other. His parents adore me and are thrilled that he might not die alone. After his mom...
Aug. 24 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 24 — Q: I’m a woman in my late 20s. Guys don’t have car crashes looking at me, but I am pretty and have a nice boyfriend. I have three drop-dead gorgeous girlfriends who...
Aug. 17 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 17 — Q: When I was in my 20s, watching “Sex and the City,” I saw the Samantha Jones character as a sexual role model — thinking I could have love-‘em-and-leave-‘em...
Aug. 10 2016
WEDNESDAY, Aug. 10 — Q: I dress like a tomboy: jeans, T-shirts, hoodies, and work boots. My boyfriend of a year wants me to wear skirts and dresses more often. Nothing trashy. Just not my usual tomb
July 27 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 27 — Q: Four months ago, I started hooking up with this hot guy I met on Tinder. He isn’t someone I’d normally go for; he’s a total mess and serious trouble. He...
July 20 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 20 — Q: A female friend overheard me on the phone with my boyfriend and became concerned. He and I tease each other relentlessly, calling each other mean silly names, but it’s...
July 13 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 13 — Q: I’m a single guy who started a “friends with benefits” thing two months ago with an unhappily married female co-worker. We’ve since developed feelings...
July 6 2016
WEDNESDAY, July 6 — Q: I’ve always been a very athletic guy. I do jujitsu every day. When I don’t exercise, I feel depressed. My girlfriend, however, has never been very physically active....
June 29 2016
WEDNESDAY, June 29 — Q: I’m a 44-year-old woman who’s been dating a successful actor for a year. When we met, he told me he was 35. Well, in picking up a prescription for him, I discovered...
June 22 2016
WEDNESDAY, June 22 — Q: My girlfriend tells her mother and her friends pretty much everything. Literally four of her friends and her mom were weighing in on her recent urinary tract infection. I...
June 15 2016
WEDNESDAY, June 25 — Q: I’m increasingly frustrated by your views that women are attracted to men with status or wealth and don’t care much about men’s looks. Personally, I’m...
June 8 2016
WEDNESDAY, June 8 — Q: I’m a single woman in my 40s. It’s been ages since I’ve seriously dated anyone. People tell me that I seem “closed off.” I don’t want to...

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